I am in love with an 18 years old lady who is from a very poor background as mine, I will be 30 this year and I intend settling down maritally this year or early next year, I would have loved her to gain admission before doing anything marriage with her.
I have discussed going back to school with her and getting a trade along, by her consent to it I have gave her money to enroll for jamb and NECO exam which will make her secure admission this year, the jamb result is out and OK pending NECO exam which will start next week.
My problem is the parent are financially handicapped to contribute a dime to her education and we are not married that means the whole stuff is on my head.
I would have loved to marry this year if she was already in school or a graduate, I am the first son with responsibility of putting my younger ones through school.
I feel I will be shouldering a lot of responsibility, the relationship is just one way sided and the parents don’t give a breathing space whenever she spends some hours late in my house, like reminding me we are not married, the whole thing is that I love her, she is a lady I can talk to, and very young amd beautiful.