Please help with your inputs.
I will be very brief.
A man married a woman.
The marriage produced a kid. Along the line they had an irreconcilable issue.
I called it irreconcilable because the man had begged the woman, called elders and everyone in sight to help beg but the woman is unforgiving.
Now after some years of the woman staying out of their matrimonial home. (Cos she moved out with the children) she called the man and told him she wants to move on and remarry and that the man should tell her how to return the dowry paid on her.
She is also making the man sign an undertaking that he can always come to see the children whenever he wants.
Though the agreement didn’t state that the children can always visit their father whenever they want.
Now my question:-
Should The Man Accept The Dowry, Or He Should Reject It But Let Her Move On?
Secondly, the agreement stating that he can only visit the children at her maybe a new home.
Is it proper?
Cos as it is the children can’t go to their fathers.
Please your opinions are welcomed.